很久没有推荐电影了。公众号没有更新有个很重要的原因，因为我最近都在“聊”电影。自从开了一个聊电影的节目之后，总感觉“写”变成了一点点负担。但是不要紧的，我会尽量在给大家推电影的时候掌握好节奏，适当“聊”适当“写”，可能把录的节目放在这个公众号里跟大家分享，也可能会夹带私货跟大家说说感悟。

有段时间没有更新还有一个比较重要的原因。因为我发现我有点迷失了。

因为我翻了一篇曾经写过的影评，那同样也是一篇介绍电视剧的评论，但是和我后来的风格非常不一样。我特意找出了那篇文章，找了找从前的感觉。（请戳→《【新年第一推】你还会爱上别人的》）。

于是我终于明白，为什么会有这样的感触。无非是因为，太过于信息流的讲述方式并不是我介绍电影的惯用手法。我推荐电影，向来讲的都不是信息流，而是情感流。所以我从前交来的朋友也都是同种风格和特质。

这样说起来貌似有点赶客，但无论未来将如何，我可能还是会继续游离，只是今天我还是任性了这么一回——跟你说说这部电影，哪怕只是我的情感流介绍。

《爱情限时恋未尽》

说到底，这还是一部三观不正的电影。电影名字里的五点到七点，是男女主见面约会的时间，而其他时间里，女主 arielle是别人的妻子，是别人孩子的母亲，她需要对丈夫尽责，对孩子负责。但是在和男主角相处的时间里，她却可以放心享受恋爱中的每个过程。

故事的男主角是一个还不出名的作家。有一天他在纽约的街头散步，看见一个女人从一个餐厅出来抽烟，他看到女人如此优雅，断定对方是说法语的，于是借着也抽烟的名义，跟对方说了几句法语，女方果然也用法语作答，他们就是这么认识的。

女人第二次约见面的时候问了作家的职业，而且直言不讳跟他讲自己是有夫之妇。但是5点到7点的时间，是可以约会的。这让年轻的作家不太能接受。他很久没有出现在约会地点。

但是没过多久，他发现，原来女人把事情跟自己的丈夫说了，对方的丈夫也找到了年轻作家，邀请他到家里做客。

作家受邀来到女子家里，见到了她的儿子女儿，见到了她的丈夫，还有很多日常不会见到的社会名流，甚至还有女人老公的情人。一个出版社的女编辑。

作家在arielle丈夫的帮助下，认识了不少上流社会的人，成功地出版了自己的第一本小说。在这个时候，他也终于按耐不住自己的真情，跟arielle求婚，表白真挚。

arielle被作家的深情打动，她答应作家可以和他一起。她让作家在第二天下午三点的时候等着自己，两个人可能需要离开这个城市一段时间。

arielle的丈夫知道了，跑去作家家里打了他一通，说他违反了规则，但还是给了作家一笔钱，让他不要亏待arielle。

但是，作家没有等来arielle。

arielle给作家留了一封信。那封信是这样的。

i started working when i was 11.

by 25, i could feel the end of my career coming.

i thought, “what happens now?”

“what will be my life?”

i was terrified.

and so i made an error of youth.

some of the girls were lucky.

they had fallen in love, but not me. not once.

even though i had been all over the world and i had met everyone.

that spring, i was introduced to valery.

he was then just as he is now.

solid. substantial. and good.

“the salt of the earth,” as american like to say.

i felt a great affection for him.

a great respect.

that is a kind of love.

i thought it was the only kind i would ever know.

i didn’t believe enough.

i didn’t believe in love.

8 years later, i discovered that i should have.

it has stunned me, this new happiness, which came out of nowhere.

this secret door that has opened in me.

i have never felt so alive… as when i am in your arms.

it is tempting, so tempting to forget about everything and just accept this gift.

but i cannot.

and not because i don’t believe that you would be a marvelous stepfather to marc and elodie.

and a wonderful father to the children we might have had together.

not because of lifestyle or the difference in our ages or the opinions of others.

when valery and i married, we wrote our own vows.

i will hold your heart more tenderly than my own.

he has always kept his promise, and i feel i must keep mine.

but it’s more than a matter of honor.

one day, brian, when you have children, you’ll understand that to leave them is to leave yourself.

and to injure them, unthinkable.

i told you, i’m an old-fashioned girl.

please do not try to contact me.

it will not change anything.

i am so sad to say goodbye.

to be parted.

i can’t believe it, really.

we had so many adventures still ahead of us.

maybe…if we had had more time, i would have found something about you i didn’t like, really couldn’t stand, which would be very useful right now.

but i doubt it.

they say that no love is perfect.

but then, they never met you.

arielle

那天录节目的时候，我把这封信念了一遍。所有的情感好像也同这封信一样一同涌出。或许流连在这人世上，没有经历过最完满的爱情，但是请允许我，为这一次哪怕只是三观不正的爱情，感动一次。

此刻，五月天唱着《爱情的模样》。我却又默默念了一遍：“they say that no love is perfect. but then, they never met you.”